by naunga on Sun May 20, 2007 3:12 am
Here's the thing that you both should consider: loving to cook does not equal loving the restaurant business.
Yes cooking is fun and you need a passion for food in this biz, but more than anything you need to love the business. You need to love the heat, the burns, the cuts, the yelling, the "men's locker room"-ness of many kitchens. You need to love the long hours. Mark had a great bit of wisdom when he pointed out that most successful cooks have a "refusal to live in the everyday world." Truer words were never spoken (or typed as the case may be).
We are a band of pirates, a thieves' guild, a Wizard's Order. We heartily welcome those who have the nature of a cook and can smell a poser a mile away. Tony Bourdain has said his attraction to the kitchen was due to the moral flexibility that existed (and still exists) in many kitchens. Into drugs? Into hookers? Like stealing cars? Drink like a fish? Killed 3 people? No problem, just don't be late for your shift, don't slack off, and don't steal from the restaurant or you fellow cooks. Sure most kitchens in the US anyhow have cleaned up their act. There is a real respect for food in a lot of places nowadays, but the undercurrent of immorality still exists.
And also keep in mind that professional cooking isn't really about being creative. It's about bangin' out 200 dishes a night perfectly. It's about being able to handle a busy station without losing your cool or cutting corners.
So, through all this here's my suggestion: first off, I second everything everyone else has said. The people here (for the most part) are doing it everyday. Heed their words.
I know someone already said it, but I'd like to emphasize it: READ, READ, READ. Read "Kitchen Confidential", read "On Food and Cooking", read "The Soul of A Chef". Read professional cooking textbooks like "OnCooking".
You should also get a job in a kitchen. Any kitchen. So long as they're busy. No sense in working in a place that only does 20 covers a night...unless that's the type of place you want to work. Most places will take you on without experience so long as you have a good attitude and are willing to learn.
When you get that job, take notes constantly, and stay passionate about food. Read about food, cook at home, go hang out at the farmers' market. And finally: EAT. So many beginning cooks spend so much time cooking that they forget to go eat at restaurants. Eat food you've never had before. Eat things you thing are "gross", eat ethnic foods, etc. You have to expand your palate.
Anyhow, I think that about covers it.
Good luck to you.
Naunga
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